Mindfulness Courses

About Mindfulness,
Stillness and the Heart

Stillness for the Heart wishes to offer counselling and mindfulness classes with a heart, to help busy people cope with stress in their lives. Mindfulness helps us to become comfortable with the present moment experience instead of dwelling on past hurts, obsessing about the uncertainty of the future, or escaping into compulsions and addictions. It allows us to explore solutions that come from peace and stillness rather than trying to get them from overthinking, ruminating, and analysing. Kindness, added to mindfulness, makes the experience so much more joyful, improving our relationships with ourselves, with others, and with our spirituality. We can learn to lead healthier and more meaningful lives, have better relationships, and be less affected by stressful work environments.

Stillness for the Heart offers meditation classes for people from all walks of life. We teach mindful meditations that bring us gently back to the present moment, helping us to refrain from our usual coping and escape strategies. The meditations taught are based on the principles of kindness, compassion, joyous appreciation, and equanimity for ourselves and the people around us, allowing us to heal from inside rather than trying to depend on external conditions like social media, Internet, gambling, alcohol, sex, drugs or food.

We offer various mindfulness courses to suit different needs. Below is a selection of our four most popular ones.

Mindfulness-Based
Relapse Prevention (MBRP)

Meditation practices to prevent relapse

  • Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention MBRP is a novel treatment approach developed at the Addictive Behaviors Research Centre at the University of Washington, for individuals in recovery from or affected by addictive behaviors. (Bowen, Chawla, and Marlatt, 2010).

    The program is designed to bring practices of mindful awareness to individuals who have suffered from the addictive trappings and tendencies of the mind. MBRP practices are intended to foster increased awareness of triggers, destructive habitual patterns, and “automatic” reactions that seem to control many of our lives. The mindfulness practices in MBRP are designed to help us pause, observe present experiences, and bring awareness to the range of choices before each of us in every moment. We learn to respond in ways that serve us, rather than react in ways that are detrimental to our health and happiness.

    Ultimately, we are working towards freedom from deeply ingrained and often catastrophic habits.

    Similar to Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy for depression, MBRP is designed as an aftercare program integrating mindfulness practices and principles with cognitive-behavioral relapse prevention. In our experience, MBRP is best suited to individuals who have undergone initial treatment and wish to maintain their treatment gains and develop a lifestyle that supports their well-being and recovery.

  • Session 1: Automatic Pilot and Relapse

    When we experience cravings and urges to engage in destructive behaviors, we often engage in reactive behaviors, acting on them without full awareness of what is occurring and what the consequences will be. This first session introduces the idea of “automatic pilot”, or acting without awareness, and discusses the relationship between automatic pilot and relapse. We begin by using mindful awareness to recognize this tendency, and then learn to begin shifting from our habitual and often self-defeating behavior to observation of what is happening in our minds and bodies without “automatically” reacting. This session uses the raisin exercise to introduce mindful awareness and contrast it to automatic pilot. Body scan practice is then introduced as a way of bringing attention to present-moment experiences of the body.

    Session 2: Awareness of Triggers and Craving

    This session focuses on recognizing triggers and introduces the practice of experiencing them without automatically reacting. We begin by learning to identify triggers and observe how they often lead to a chain of sensations, thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Mindfulness can bring this process into awareness, disrupting automatic behaviors and allowing greater flexibility and choice. The SOBER breathing space is the practice that can extend this quality of mindfulness from formal sitting or lying-down meditation into the daily situations and challenges we encounter

    Session 3: Mindfulness in Daily Life

    Mindfulness meditation can increase our awareness and subsequently help us make better choices in our daily lives. Because breathing is always a present-moment experience, pausing and paying attention to the breath is a way to return to the present moment and bring awareness back to the body. With presence and awareness, we are often less reactive and can make decisions from a stronger, clearer place.

    Session 4: Mindfulness in High-Risk Situations

    In this session, we focus on staying present in challenging situations that have previously been associated with substance use or other reactive behavior. We learn how to relate differently to pressures or urges to use substances and practice responding to highly evocative stimuli with awareness rather than reacting automatically or out of habit.

    Session 5: Acceptance and Skilful Action

    It is important to find the balance between accepting whatever arises while also encouraging healthy or positive action in our lives. For example, we might not have control over things that happen to us, emotions that arise, current job or family situations, or other people's behaviors and reactions. When we fight against these things, however, we tend to feel frustrated, angry, or defeated, which can be triggered to destructive behavior. When we accept the present as it is, we are not being passive. We are allowing what already is without struggle or resistance. This is often a necessary first step toward change. The same is true of self-acceptance; it often requires a complete acceptance of ourselves just as we are before real change can occur.

    Session 6: Seeing Thoughts as Thoughts

    We have had a lot of practice over the past several weeks noticing our minds wandering and labeling what is going on in our minds as “thinking”. We have practiced gently returning the focus of attention to the breath or body. Now we want to turn our focus to thoughts and begin to experience thoughts as just words or images in the mind that we may or may not choose to believe. We will discuss the role of thoughts and believing in thoughts in the relapse cycle

    Session 7: Self-Care and Lifestyle Balance

    We have spent several weeks paying close attention to the specific situations, thoughts, and emotions that put us at risk for relapse. In this session, we take a look at the broader picture of our lives and identify those aspects that support a healthier, more vital life and those that put us at greater risk. Taking care of oneself and engaging in nourishing activities are essential parts of recovery.

    Session 8: Social Support & Continuing Practice

    Recovery and mindfulness practice are both lifelong journeys that require commitment and diligence. This is not an easy voyage. In fact, it can feel at times like swimming up-stream. Thus far, we have learned about factors that put us at risk, some skills to help navigate through high-risk situations, and the importance of maintaining lifestyle balance. Hopefully participating in this group has also provided a sense of support and community. Having a support network is crucial to continuing along the path of practice & recovery. Having a recovery support system can help us recognize signs of relapse and provide support when we feel we are at risk. Having support around our meditation practice can help us sustain our practice and choose to show up for our lives mindful, intentional, and compassionate way.

Gentle Mindfulness for Connection, Addiction, Trauma & Stress (GEM Cats)

Meditation practices to cultivate connection

  • The opposite of addiction is often described not as sobriety but as connection. In recovery, we find that establishing a healthy relationship with ourselves, with others and a higher power or spirituality; fills the empty hole we were trying to fix with our addiction. We may have thought that endless compulsive behaviours will free us of pain and bring happiness, only to find the hole to become bigger and bigger. Not knowing connection, we found pleasure as a replacement, leading us into an unceasing craving instead of the promised satisfaction.

  • (Include Making friends)

    • to connect with ourselves, with others and with our own spirituality.

    • to connect with our body, mind, breath and feelings.

    • to connect with the joy in the present moment.

    • to connect with stillness and peace.

    • to connect with the kindness within ourselves.

    • to heal attachment wounds and other relational trauma.

    • to heal from traumatic events and PTSD.

    • to allow, let be and let go of uncomfortable feelings by being kind to them.

    • Getting to know the foundations of Mindfulness.

    • Learning to develop and appreciate loving Kindness.

    • Learning to attend and care for difficult emotions by developing self-compassion.

    • Learning to meet, attend and care for past traumatic experiences.

  • Session 1: Being kind to the Body - Connecting, attending to the body

    Session 2: Enjoying the Present Moment - Connecting with the Present Moment

    Session 3: Making Friends with the Breath - Connecting with the Breath

    Session 4: I’m good enough - Connecting w one’s own, and others' kindness.

    Session 5: Kindness to oneself & others - Connecting with self and others.

    Session 6: Compassion for oneself & others - Connecting with unpleasant feelings

    Session 7: Opening the door to my heart - Connecting, and attending to past trauma

    Session 8: Resting in a joyful, peaceful place - Connecting with peace and joy

Gentle Mindfulness
Starter (GEMS)

  • Resting our awareness in the present is becoming a challenge to many of us today. Often we find ourselves stressed out and upset but we can take action to reduce our stress level and lead healthier and happier lives. Practicing mindfulness has been scientifically proven to improve physical and mental health through relieving stress, lowering blood pressure, improving sleep, and reducing anxiety among other benefits.

    This course has been developed to introduce the basics of mindfulness and meditation. It provides you with the necessary methods and knowhow to develop your own regular practice. By learning to shift our awareness from our many busy thoughts to our bodily sensations and breathing, we can make our mind very still and comfortable. Observing our mind, we get to know it better and by developing a more accepting and warm attitude towards it, possibilities for change open up.

  • Session 1: What is Mindfulness?

    In this first session we look at the basic concepts of mindfulness and the benefits of practicing regularly in our daily lives. Moving our awareness from overthinking to sensing we learn a new way to relate to our bodily sensations, emotions and thoughts that can help us to cope better with stress.

    Session 2: Creating Space

    Often, we find ourselves stuck in the same automatic behaviors that often bring us into the same kind of trouble — over and over again. With mindfulness we can learn to create the space, time and awareness necessary to respond to a difficult situation instead of just reacting.

    Session 3: Letting Go

    Having collected some initial experience from a week of practice, we will discuss the common challenges we face when we sit quietly with ourselves. We will also learn how to let go of these distractions without causing any extra tensions in our mind and body.

    Session 4: Kindfulness

    Developing kindness towards thoughts, feelings, emotions, bodily sensations and ourselves as a whole is essential. We will learn methods to start being kind with ourselves. During our daily lives, we may observe how this positively transforms our relationships to people, environment and situations.

Gentle Mindfulness for
the Heart (GEM Heart)

Meditation practices of kindness

  • In this course, we focus on Forgiveness, Loving Kindness, Compassion, Appreciative Joy, and Equanimity. These practices fit nicely into our modern hectic world as they allow us to bring about changes in our relationships with ourselves and others that we never thought possible.

  • Session 1: Forgiveness

    Forgiveness is this wonderful attitude that sets us and others free. Forgiving ourselves opens the door for kindness, compassion, joy, and equanimity to arise in our hearts. Forgiving others allows resentment to cool down, restores relationships, and improves our feeling of self-worth.

    Session 2: Loving Kindness

    Before we can love others, learning to be gentle and accepting of ourselves is essential. We look at simple methods to become at ease with ourselves, our body, our mind, our breathing, our thinking, our appearance, our past, and our future by just being still with loving kindness.

    Session 3: Compassion

    We learn to start caring about our own difficulties and suffering and in the process develop a warm understanding of ourselves, our past, our origins, emotions, thoughts, and behaviors. We gently approach how we can accept them by starting to care for them instead of trying to push them away. This automatically enhances our ability to empathize with and understand others.

    Session 4: Appreciative Joy

    In this session we learn a method that helps us to begin to appreciate ourselves for who we are, learning that we are actually ok. By contemplating our good sides rather than the negative ones, we can start being grateful for being us and being “good enough”.

    Session 5: Equanimity/Contentment

    A balanced mind does not compartmentalize people and events into good or bad. Instead, we have equally warm feelings and acceptance for everybody. This same attitude applied to ourselves is what we will talk about in this session. An equally warm feeling and gentleness for anything arising in our mind and body for genuine acceptance.